The goodbyes have already begun...I said my first one yesterday, and will continue to do so until we leave Joburg on Wednesday night. It's a strange time, because it's not real yet. And it will get harder and harder as Wednesday gets closer and closer. The hardest part is being asked when I will come back. All I can do is honestly answer, "When God tells me to," because I've learned not to plan out things on my own. It's a difficult answer to give, though...
Last weekend was quite fun, but exhausting! The hike on Saturday was around this meteorite crater, and it was perfect weather. Russell and I were the youngest in the group by at least 30 years, but it was nice. We also had a braai afterwards (braai = cookout)...but instead of hamburgers and hotdogs, think sausages, chicken, and lamb. And although it was fun, again I felt the unease of being around a different, "higher class" culture, and a few side comments about the "indigenous" made me cringe inwardly. I've really been brought into several different cultures at once, which is awkward at times, but has given me a better idea of the mix that is here in SA.
That evening we went to Thom and Ester's house for dinner. They work at the Joseph Project, which is a couple blocks away and does a daycare/afterschool program of it's own. They're a young, newly married couple, and it was really enjoyable to hang out with them and some of the other Joseph Project staff. (Yay, SA people closer to my age!) And we made our own pizzas with the best toppings ever...what more could you want! Then on Sunday, we had lunch at Cynthia and Sham's place with Nomalanga, Thabo, Oyisa, and Uncle Ivan. It was a TON of food, and we stayed there until late. The culture in their house was much more relaxed, especially regarding time. When I thought we would have been ready to leave, they brought out dessert and tea! It was so nice to have their hospitality.
This past week at the Centre, I've been doing a variety of things, especially since I'm not helping as directly with the teaching in the Puppy class. I still play with the kids quite a bit, but try to do other things to help out as well. Actually, on Thursday Faith had to take her son to a doctor's appointment, so Amber and I volunteered to help out in the kitchen...making the snacks and lunch. Yes, I helped cook lunch for 50 kids! (Don't get too excited...it was macaroni and cheese) ;o)
Tuesday evening we also went to see Amazing Grace (remember that movie this past winter?) with Cheryl's family. A very good movie, and it was nice to go out someplace new and hang out with them. (Have I mentioned that they're awesome?) And last night, I had a "girls night" with Carol and Amber, where we ate out and then went to see Shrek 3 (not as good as the original, but still cute). 2 movies in one week...crazy! I stayed over at Carol's last night, hence the early morning post. I'm gonna miss those two a LOT!
Well, I need to catch a shower before the day begins...between now and Wednesday evening, our schedule is pretty packed with things! It's helpful, though, to make sure that I say my goodbyes properly and get some closure on this experience. I've definitely changed, though in ways I can't fully express. So although I won't be posting from here anymore, stay tuned for wrap-up and reflection posts in the next few weeks...
And just so you know...I'll be landing in Richmond at 6 pm on Thursday. Then will begin the process of re-entry and re-programming...
See you soon!
(Thinking of and praying for Mary-Carolyn today as she starts her new life with Kyle!)
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Friday, July 20, 2007
Weekend of luxury :o)
So this weekend, Carol is on a silent retreat with Pastor Cheryl. In her absence, she's letting me stay at her place...so I have a nice big bed, a SHOWER, and internet access for the weekend! Plus, Amber is here, so we can hang out and have fun girl time. It's also good, because the power went out at the cottage last night (again), and as of this afternoon, it still wasn't back on.
Youth Sunday went really well. The youth represented themselves really well, and the music (the part I mainly organized) went really well. I actually heard people in the congregation singing! I was also proud of them for learning the choir song that Russell taught them, and that Priscilla and NhlaNhla actually sang solos. Youth Sunday is a once-a-month thing, and I'm hoping in the future it will continue to be a bigger thing where they participate more and show the church their stuff.
The youth group here is really great. I've loved hanging out with them and getting to know them. Some of them are so insightful and really serious about their faith. And there are several others who openly admit they are not Christians, but still ask questions and participate. They have so much energy and willingness to do so many things. And when they play a game, they get into it! They're a part of the generation that will be crucial in the coming years, taking leadership and (hopefully) helping to turn this country around. I have so much hope for them, and see so much potential in them.
This week at the TLC, I've kinda been phasing myself out a bit. For the sake of the kids, and the staff, they need to get used to me not being around. So, Joyce has been aiding in the Puppy class, and I've been helping with other stuff around the church. I still hang out with them during meals and playtime and things. It's a tough thing, because I really want to help out a lot more and be with the kids as much as possible before I leave, but I don't want to make them dependent on me. The kids have become even more affectionate towards me, and the Puppies' new favorite thing is to blow kisses. I've even noticed them being more affectionate towards each other, hugging each other and things like that.
Something else that's cool is how the teachers have been changing. Quite often, Russell, Amber, and I will sit with the kids in their little kid chairs while waiting for a meal or snack, talking with them or hugging them or whatever. Now on occasion, the other teachers are doing the same, something I've NEVER seen them do before. They're not bad teachers or people; they just need some training and guidance about what to do with the kids, and the purpose of the TLC. It's not just a babysitting service; it's a ministry and educational process. And Amber is working on ways to help them in their teaching, coming up with themes and activities. There's great possibility for change, and I'd really like to see what it's like a year from now.
Of course, the kids still have their naughty side. Yesterday Tony had a staff meeting, leaving us three Americans with all 50 kids for about 45 minutes. When the cats are away, the mice will play! They knew the teachers weren't around, so they took full advantage of us. The kids were running around screaming, and it took everything we had to somewhat control them. As a result of yesterday, which involved a lot of yelling on my part, I managed to strain my vocal cords and have little voice left.
Today, Amber and I went to Door of Hope again, where I dropped off the donations sent with me, held some babies, then took the two Virginia girls out for a while. Katie and Alison are there for the month of July through the same program that I came through. They were very grateful for time out, and I really enjoyed hanging out with them and talking (as much as I could). It was a fun day all around!
PS - I have loved having Carol and Amber here! They're lots of fun to be around and talk to, and they like to take us places. Like Wednesday night, when Russell and I tried to make samp for dinner (a great South African dish that appears to be really easy to make)...let's just say the smell of smoke is finally out of the cottage ;o) Anyway, we were able to eat out thanks to Amber's generosity and willingness to take us to the mall. It's such a blessing to work with them and get to know them more.
On tap for this weekend: a hike tomorrow, dinner at someone's house tomorrow night, leading youth Sunday School on Sunday, and lunch after church at someone else's house. And, of course, enjoying the space of Carol's flat!
Youth Sunday went really well. The youth represented themselves really well, and the music (the part I mainly organized) went really well. I actually heard people in the congregation singing! I was also proud of them for learning the choir song that Russell taught them, and that Priscilla and NhlaNhla actually sang solos. Youth Sunday is a once-a-month thing, and I'm hoping in the future it will continue to be a bigger thing where they participate more and show the church their stuff.
The youth group here is really great. I've loved hanging out with them and getting to know them. Some of them are so insightful and really serious about their faith. And there are several others who openly admit they are not Christians, but still ask questions and participate. They have so much energy and willingness to do so many things. And when they play a game, they get into it! They're a part of the generation that will be crucial in the coming years, taking leadership and (hopefully) helping to turn this country around. I have so much hope for them, and see so much potential in them.
This week at the TLC, I've kinda been phasing myself out a bit. For the sake of the kids, and the staff, they need to get used to me not being around. So, Joyce has been aiding in the Puppy class, and I've been helping with other stuff around the church. I still hang out with them during meals and playtime and things. It's a tough thing, because I really want to help out a lot more and be with the kids as much as possible before I leave, but I don't want to make them dependent on me. The kids have become even more affectionate towards me, and the Puppies' new favorite thing is to blow kisses. I've even noticed them being more affectionate towards each other, hugging each other and things like that.
Something else that's cool is how the teachers have been changing. Quite often, Russell, Amber, and I will sit with the kids in their little kid chairs while waiting for a meal or snack, talking with them or hugging them or whatever. Now on occasion, the other teachers are doing the same, something I've NEVER seen them do before. They're not bad teachers or people; they just need some training and guidance about what to do with the kids, and the purpose of the TLC. It's not just a babysitting service; it's a ministry and educational process. And Amber is working on ways to help them in their teaching, coming up with themes and activities. There's great possibility for change, and I'd really like to see what it's like a year from now.
Of course, the kids still have their naughty side. Yesterday Tony had a staff meeting, leaving us three Americans with all 50 kids for about 45 minutes. When the cats are away, the mice will play! They knew the teachers weren't around, so they took full advantage of us. The kids were running around screaming, and it took everything we had to somewhat control them. As a result of yesterday, which involved a lot of yelling on my part, I managed to strain my vocal cords and have little voice left.
Today, Amber and I went to Door of Hope again, where I dropped off the donations sent with me, held some babies, then took the two Virginia girls out for a while. Katie and Alison are there for the month of July through the same program that I came through. They were very grateful for time out, and I really enjoyed hanging out with them and talking (as much as I could). It was a fun day all around!
PS - I have loved having Carol and Amber here! They're lots of fun to be around and talk to, and they like to take us places. Like Wednesday night, when Russell and I tried to make samp for dinner (a great South African dish that appears to be really easy to make)...let's just say the smell of smoke is finally out of the cottage ;o) Anyway, we were able to eat out thanks to Amber's generosity and willingness to take us to the mall. It's such a blessing to work with them and get to know them more.
On tap for this weekend: a hike tomorrow, dinner at someone's house tomorrow night, leading youth Sunday School on Sunday, and lunch after church at someone else's house. And, of course, enjoying the space of Carol's flat!
Friday, July 13, 2007
It's actually me posting!!
It's actually me updating! If you didn't know, all my previous posts have been typed on word documents, sent to my personal email account from Tony's home address, then posted by my parents or brother. But I'm at Carol's flat, using the internet, so I'm actually on now! As I am typing this, Russell, Amber, and Carol are off seeing the new Harry Potter movie. Seeing as I have yet to read any of the books or see any of the movies (and don’t know if I ever will…just not interested right now!), I am hanging out in Carol’s flat, where I am enjoying the luxury of quiet time, hot chocolate, and a SHOWER!! (Yay, for once I don’t have to wash my hair in the sink!!) The introvert in me is very happy :o)
This is going to be a random update…just some odds and ends that I don’t recall mentioning before, as well as some other observations.
Last week I had the opportunity to have dinner with my cousin, Liz (Thornberry). Yes, I have a relative in town! She’s working towards her Ph.D. in South African history, and as a part of that she’s taking a six week course in Zulu at Wits University on the other side of the city. It was a lot of fun to hang out, and she might even come by the Centre sometime to practice her Zulu with the kids and the staff.
On Sunday mornings, I’ve been helping with the praise team, running the Powerpoints. Yes, it’s the return of the powerpoint princess ;o) Well, last week Tony gave me the task of putting all their songs into powerpoint so he doesn’t have to type them up all the time. During down time at the Centre, I’ve been working through six (yes, six) large notebooks of lyric sheets and overhead transparencies, typing them all up. I’ve finally finished, and now I need to double check the formatting of the previous ones. He might also have me put pictures on them, if time works out.
Speaking of Sunday mornings…this coming Sunday is youth Sunday! So Carol, Russell, and I are taking over the planning of the entire service. I’m really excited about it...stay tuned for an update next week!
I’ve told you about most of my kids in my last update. Can I just say that I’m getting more and more attached to them, even if they are naughty? They’re so sweet and so much fun, especially since they’ve all warmed up to me. The other day, I was helping split up the classes for play time and was giving instructions to the Elephants. Rosina, one of my Puppies, came over and sat down with them to listen to me…I think she finally recognizes me as her teacher! I especially love to do puzzle time with the Puppy girls. We get out one of those wooden puzzles, and I hand them each a piece, one at a time. As each girl puts hers in, the others help her find the spot, and we all cheer when it’s put in the right place. I love being able to focus all my attention on a small group of them like that.
Another day, I was sitting outside while the kids were playing, and Elam came over to give me a hug. (I confess, she’s one of my favorites, though I try not to show it.) Then she said, “I love you, teacher!” (Okay, really, can I take her home with me?) But as I thought about it, I realized that I hadn’t heard those words since I’d been here (with the exception of among the Allen family, when the American team was here, and in conversations with my parents). And it made me wonder: how much, if at all, do those kids hear that? How much meaning does that phrase have for them? It breaks my heart to think that they might not hear it at all. I’ve been making a point to say it to them individually, when they give me a hug goodbye. I don’t want to overdo it, but I want them to know that I do love them, both through my treatment of them and telling them directly.
Cheryl also gave each of us a book called Fundamentals of the Faith, a workbook that has a lot of the basics of Christian beliefs that we’re to work through with someone else in a discipleship program. It’s not exactly one of my favorite books (I guess I’ve gotten a little post-modern and liberal in my thinking, so fill-in-the-blank faith questions aren’t my thing), but it’s a good thing for people who are learning the basics, to know what it really means to follow Christ. I’ve been assigned to Joyce, and today was our first discussion of it. We talked about some of the things, and I helped her to understand some of it. She’s still working on her English, so some of the language the book uses is a bit much for her. Pretty soon we were joined by Aurelia, who is just starting the book. It was so refreshing to sit outside and have discussions about the questions and things of that nature. Aurelia called it the “Touch Life College.” They both are eager to learn more, which is a great thing!
I think that’s all I wanted to mention. It’s hard to believe I only have two and a half weeks left here! There’s so much more I want to do, so many more people I want to get to know, so many people I don’t want to leave. Just thinking about leaving makes me tear up a little. Some people have asked me when I’ll come back, and I tell them honestly: when God wills it. Would I love to come back? Yes! But I don’t know what my future holds. I would definitely love to have another overseas experience (perhaps long-term? Here or another place?), but I’ve learned not to plan things too strictly, because God loves to turn my plans upside down and do something even better than I dreamed.
Now it’s time for three quick shout-outs: July 16 – Happy birthday to Miss Abbie Duke! July 17 – Happy 25th anniversary to my parents! July 18 – Happy birthday to Miss Kristin Beasley! (my apologies to others I have forgotten – most dates don’t stay in my head very well!)
Hope you all are doing well!
This is going to be a random update…just some odds and ends that I don’t recall mentioning before, as well as some other observations.
Last week I had the opportunity to have dinner with my cousin, Liz (Thornberry). Yes, I have a relative in town! She’s working towards her Ph.D. in South African history, and as a part of that she’s taking a six week course in Zulu at Wits University on the other side of the city. It was a lot of fun to hang out, and she might even come by the Centre sometime to practice her Zulu with the kids and the staff.
On Sunday mornings, I’ve been helping with the praise team, running the Powerpoints. Yes, it’s the return of the powerpoint princess ;o) Well, last week Tony gave me the task of putting all their songs into powerpoint so he doesn’t have to type them up all the time. During down time at the Centre, I’ve been working through six (yes, six) large notebooks of lyric sheets and overhead transparencies, typing them all up. I’ve finally finished, and now I need to double check the formatting of the previous ones. He might also have me put pictures on them, if time works out.
Speaking of Sunday mornings…this coming Sunday is youth Sunday! So Carol, Russell, and I are taking over the planning of the entire service. I’m really excited about it...stay tuned for an update next week!
I’ve told you about most of my kids in my last update. Can I just say that I’m getting more and more attached to them, even if they are naughty? They’re so sweet and so much fun, especially since they’ve all warmed up to me. The other day, I was helping split up the classes for play time and was giving instructions to the Elephants. Rosina, one of my Puppies, came over and sat down with them to listen to me…I think she finally recognizes me as her teacher! I especially love to do puzzle time with the Puppy girls. We get out one of those wooden puzzles, and I hand them each a piece, one at a time. As each girl puts hers in, the others help her find the spot, and we all cheer when it’s put in the right place. I love being able to focus all my attention on a small group of them like that.
Another day, I was sitting outside while the kids were playing, and Elam came over to give me a hug. (I confess, she’s one of my favorites, though I try not to show it.) Then she said, “I love you, teacher!” (Okay, really, can I take her home with me?) But as I thought about it, I realized that I hadn’t heard those words since I’d been here (with the exception of among the Allen family, when the American team was here, and in conversations with my parents). And it made me wonder: how much, if at all, do those kids hear that? How much meaning does that phrase have for them? It breaks my heart to think that they might not hear it at all. I’ve been making a point to say it to them individually, when they give me a hug goodbye. I don’t want to overdo it, but I want them to know that I do love them, both through my treatment of them and telling them directly.
Cheryl also gave each of us a book called Fundamentals of the Faith, a workbook that has a lot of the basics of Christian beliefs that we’re to work through with someone else in a discipleship program. It’s not exactly one of my favorite books (I guess I’ve gotten a little post-modern and liberal in my thinking, so fill-in-the-blank faith questions aren’t my thing), but it’s a good thing for people who are learning the basics, to know what it really means to follow Christ. I’ve been assigned to Joyce, and today was our first discussion of it. We talked about some of the things, and I helped her to understand some of it. She’s still working on her English, so some of the language the book uses is a bit much for her. Pretty soon we were joined by Aurelia, who is just starting the book. It was so refreshing to sit outside and have discussions about the questions and things of that nature. Aurelia called it the “Touch Life College.” They both are eager to learn more, which is a great thing!
I think that’s all I wanted to mention. It’s hard to believe I only have two and a half weeks left here! There’s so much more I want to do, so many more people I want to get to know, so many people I don’t want to leave. Just thinking about leaving makes me tear up a little. Some people have asked me when I’ll come back, and I tell them honestly: when God wills it. Would I love to come back? Yes! But I don’t know what my future holds. I would definitely love to have another overseas experience (perhaps long-term? Here or another place?), but I’ve learned not to plan things too strictly, because God loves to turn my plans upside down and do something even better than I dreamed.
Now it’s time for three quick shout-outs: July 16 – Happy birthday to Miss Abbie Duke! July 17 – Happy 25th anniversary to my parents! July 18 – Happy birthday to Miss Kristin Beasley! (my apologies to others I have forgotten – most dates don’t stay in my head very well!)
Hope you all are doing well!
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Holiday
Things are much quieter this week. The Holiday Bible Club went very well (over 100 kids on the last day!), and we had quite a fun weekend hanging out with the team from Charlottesville. Friday afternoon we went to the Apartheid museum then out to dinner at Boston BBQ (which, contrary to it's name, is a very nice buffet place that has no BBQ in it). Saturday we went to the nature reserve where I saw lions, zebras, cheetahs, wild dogs, ostrich, impala, hippos, wildebeast, rhinos, and a few tigers they are breeding (tigers aren't natural to Africa, contrary to popular belief). Then we went out to eat at Carnivore, where these men come around with huge pieces of various meats and offer you a slice. There's chicken and beef, but also ostrich, crocodile, impala, and other things. I'm proud to say I tried it ALL and it was quite good – the impala was my favorite. But it's odd to see them alive in the reserve then eat them later in the day...
Amber is now here! She's another Venturer like Carol and will be here for at least a year helping develop the programs here at the TLC. Side note: my dad was her math teacher when she was a freshman in high school. (Cue small children singing “It's a Small World After All”) We've been helping her feel a little more acclimated to the area and the Centre, and I think she'll be great.
For this week and next week at the TLC, attendance is lower due to the school holiday. So, the staff is on rotation, and we're not splitting up the kids into classes for teaching. In other words, just a lot of structured play time!
I don't think I've told you a lot about the kids, especially my class, because I've been learning how to spell their names first. I can say them all with ease now, but the spelling doesn't match up with the pronunciation, at least in my American mind.
My class, the Puppies, are ages 2-3. A difficult age in any country, I've learned. They're precious, but love to push boundaries and misbehave. And they are incredibly intelligent. Take today for example. I put them down for their naps and left the room once all eyes were closed and they were still, as is normal. Well, they know that's what I do, so as soon as they heard my footsteps leave, a few who were still awake popped their heads up and began talking! When they heard my footsteps again, they immediately stopped before I even got in the room. Needless to say, I've figured out how to sneak up on them and catch them in the act. But that's rare; usually they're good about going to sleep.
The boys love to give me trouble, especially if I take them to toilet. Sihle is quite an instigator and will stare me straight in the face while he disobeys me (by running around the yard or something like that). He's also taken to saying “Mama” when he wants my attention. I answer to it...really, I answer to anything! Oscar will sometimes follow along with Sihle, but many other times he is quiet and reserved.
One thing I've been wondering about is mental disabilities here. I'm no expert, but there are a few children I am concerned about. Siphamandla is one of them. I see a few elements of autism (repetitive motions, very disturbed if boundaries/rituals are not followed), though he can be quite social. Then again, it could be fetal alcohol syndrome. His niece, Nomfundo, is in the Elephant class, and she does several of the same things (yes, I said niece). I repeat: I'm no expert. But how many of these kids may have problems, but are just yelled at and punished for being disobedient? Lindo is another one in my class I'm not sure of. Sometimes he has such a blank look on his face, and he barely makes an effort to attempt putting on his shoes. Today, he wet himself (again), and as Malt was helping him change into new clothes, he proceeded to pee again, standing about three feet from the toilet. Disobedience? Bladder issues? Or a deeper problem? And how do you diagnose things like this in an impoverished area? And how do you get them the help they need when there is no training or staff available for it, or money for it?
Now that I've gotten that off my chest...there's Tshepo, who Joyce calls my “best friend.” The first day here, this adorable little boy always came running up to me wanting a hug. When I was put in his class and made his teacher, he proceeded to always run away from me if I told him to do something. So naughty, but so precious! He frustrated me to no end, but he was so cute that I couldn't be mad for long! About a week or so later, we were outside playing, and I took off my jersey (sweatshirt) and tied it around my waist. Next thing I know, he comes running over to me with his jersey, wanting me to tie it around his waist so he could be like me. It hit me – he disobeyed me because he liked me. Since then, I've noticed that he watches me very carefully, especially if I'm giving attention to someone else. He can still be naughty (he picks on kids twice his size!), but I would take him home in a minute :o)
The girls are another story. Elam is probably one of the brightest. She loves to point out colors and shapes that she sees (two things we're learning). But, she has bladder control issues, and changing her has become a daily occurrence. Emihle is also smart, but wakes up from every nap wet, even if we take her to toilet right before they go down. (If you haven't figured it out yet, a good part of my day is spent taking kids to toilet and changing them out of wet clothes). Rosina looks like a doll baby with these big eyes, but as she's gotten more used to me she's become more disobedient. Today, she was one of the ones talking during nap time. I'm not sure how much English she knows, because often what I say to her she will repeat straight back to me.
Grace goes between silent and mischievous. She was very naughty to me at first (pinching and attempting to bite me), but after I sent her to her mother, Faith, she's suddenly become much more obedient towards me. Her reaction time to questions and directions is slow, so I'm not sure if there is some LD there as well, or if it's a product of her environment. Siphogazi (I think I spelled that wrong) is very vocal, while Ompu is very quiet. And Awande seems to have connected with some of the girls in the Elephant class – during combined play times, they're often together.
There are a few others in the class, but they haven't been here much so I haven't gotten to know them as well. The trick with all these kids is just keeping their attention. They really are sweet, giving hugs and smiling and waving at me. With any kids that age, there's difficulty in balancing the fun and the discipline, while still letting them explore and discover things for themselves. I guess the most important thing is making sure they don't beat each other. Time out works fairly well, though with some of them it's a struggle to make them stay there! An occasional smack on the hand works for a few as well, especially if it's a repeat offense. Some of the other teachers will threaten with “I will beat you,” a common saying here. There's even a hand motion to go with it. Though they never follow through, I refuse to say it myself. In fact, it once slipped out of my mouth and I felt sick to my stomach the rest of the day.
So, those are my kids. I do love them, even if they frustrate me to no end. And there's more in the other classes that I've gotten to know as well, but this entry is long enough so I'll leave it at that.
Oh, and two shoutouts! First, congrats to the new Mrs. Jennifer Marshall!! And a big thanks to Mary-Carolyn soon-to-be-Longbrake for the package – it was just what I needed, and the things for the kids will be given out shortly. And Russell thanks you for the pasta; he's been craving alfredo sauce, but we can't seem to find it.
Happy (late) Fourth of July!
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Thoughts At The End Of One Month
This week there's a team here from Charlottesville, VA, leading a vacation Bible school (or holiday Bible club, as we call it here). They're fun to be with, and it's nice to hear that American accent again! We've had between 65 and 85 kids each day, ages 4 to 13. Today (Wednesday) was a little low because we woke up to see SNOW on the ground! It was a dusting, but it's so rare here that everyone made a big deal out of it. I'm hoping this cold snap passes by quickly!
On Saturday evening we had the opportunity go out with Tony and Anne to hear Haydn's Creation put on by the Joburg community choir and orchestra and the Yale Alumni chorus. They are sponsors of the choir, so they had free tickets, and even treated us to a nice meal beforehand! It was beautiful music and a fabulous performance, but while I was there something didn't feel quite right. Then it hit me – the choir, orchestra, and audience were overwhelmingly white. There were maybe 20 black people there. And it made me very uncomfortable. Which is odd, because Mary Washington was unfortunately a 90% white majority and I never really felt uncomfortable there. But I guess my perceptions have changed a bit.
I've mentioned it before on the blog, but race is a big deal here, and I still have trouble with it. People have set ideas about someone based upon their race. I've heard whites make passing comments about blacks, and that always makes me cringe a little bit. They're usually not offensive, but the fact that they're making broad comments about someone based upon their race is unsettling. (Example: “Blacks have such cold hands! It freezes me every time I shake one of their hands in church.”) Even when describing someone, usually the first trait they give is “white” or “black.” I notice skin color, but it's usually not the first characteristic I associate with someone. When I think of the kids at the Centre, I don't think “black kids,” just “kids.” And it's taken a lot of coercing to convince the black staff to eat lunch at the same table as the (white) American team...they don't feel as though it's their place.
But the sad thing is, there are basic generalizations that are mostly true, though it has less to do with the characteristics of the people and more to do with their economic status. White = rich, black = poor. The people that have been entertaining us on weekends and such: white. The concert was a higher culture thing, so obviously the people there had money, and therefore mostly white. I don't know of any blacks with cars. And poverty here is a tough thing to get out of. For example, the education system here is all private schools, i.e. parents have to pay. Where children go to school is not based upon location, but upon how much the parents can pay. Higher cost = better education. So even though apartheid legally ended, the schools are very much segregated due to money issues. There are even some kids who can't go to school because their parents don't have enough money. But if you can't get a quality education, or any education at all, how can you rise out of poverty? And so the cycle continues, for some at least. Hopefully there are some who can change their circumstances.
I've tried to compare it in my head to the States. Race relations there are far from perfect, but they're a little better I think. Then again, our civil rights movements were in the 1960s...we've had 50 years to work towards fixing those issues. And it's taken several generations to change ways of thinking and acting, and we're still not fully there yet. Old habits die hard, and South Africa is no exception. The youth and children we're serving now will be critical in continuing the movement towards change. I just wish that it wasn't such a slow-moving process to change the mindset and perspective people have.
But how did this all start in the first place? Why did people start suppressing others solely based upon race? Why did they decide skin color made such a big difference? And why did some of those people bring God into it, claiming God prefers one race over another and that gave them the right to have authority over those who look differently? It's a ridiculous concept, but one that has cost the freedom and lives of countless people all over the world.
I know I'm not the first to think about things like this. I guess in the States I was able to turn a blind eye to race problems. But when you're immersed in a place like this, you can't ignore it.
An unsettling way to end a blog post...I never promised it would be full of happy thoughts...
On Saturday evening we had the opportunity go out with Tony and Anne to hear Haydn's Creation put on by the Joburg community choir and orchestra and the Yale Alumni chorus. They are sponsors of the choir, so they had free tickets, and even treated us to a nice meal beforehand! It was beautiful music and a fabulous performance, but while I was there something didn't feel quite right. Then it hit me – the choir, orchestra, and audience were overwhelmingly white. There were maybe 20 black people there. And it made me very uncomfortable. Which is odd, because Mary Washington was unfortunately a 90% white majority and I never really felt uncomfortable there. But I guess my perceptions have changed a bit.
I've mentioned it before on the blog, but race is a big deal here, and I still have trouble with it. People have set ideas about someone based upon their race. I've heard whites make passing comments about blacks, and that always makes me cringe a little bit. They're usually not offensive, but the fact that they're making broad comments about someone based upon their race is unsettling. (Example: “Blacks have such cold hands! It freezes me every time I shake one of their hands in church.”) Even when describing someone, usually the first trait they give is “white” or “black.” I notice skin color, but it's usually not the first characteristic I associate with someone. When I think of the kids at the Centre, I don't think “black kids,” just “kids.” And it's taken a lot of coercing to convince the black staff to eat lunch at the same table as the (white) American team...they don't feel as though it's their place.
But the sad thing is, there are basic generalizations that are mostly true, though it has less to do with the characteristics of the people and more to do with their economic status. White = rich, black = poor. The people that have been entertaining us on weekends and such: white. The concert was a higher culture thing, so obviously the people there had money, and therefore mostly white. I don't know of any blacks with cars. And poverty here is a tough thing to get out of. For example, the education system here is all private schools, i.e. parents have to pay. Where children go to school is not based upon location, but upon how much the parents can pay. Higher cost = better education. So even though apartheid legally ended, the schools are very much segregated due to money issues. There are even some kids who can't go to school because their parents don't have enough money. But if you can't get a quality education, or any education at all, how can you rise out of poverty? And so the cycle continues, for some at least. Hopefully there are some who can change their circumstances.
I've tried to compare it in my head to the States. Race relations there are far from perfect, but they're a little better I think. Then again, our civil rights movements were in the 1960s...we've had 50 years to work towards fixing those issues. And it's taken several generations to change ways of thinking and acting, and we're still not fully there yet. Old habits die hard, and South Africa is no exception. The youth and children we're serving now will be critical in continuing the movement towards change. I just wish that it wasn't such a slow-moving process to change the mindset and perspective people have.
But how did this all start in the first place? Why did people start suppressing others solely based upon race? Why did they decide skin color made such a big difference? And why did some of those people bring God into it, claiming God prefers one race over another and that gave them the right to have authority over those who look differently? It's a ridiculous concept, but one that has cost the freedom and lives of countless people all over the world.
I know I'm not the first to think about things like this. I guess in the States I was able to turn a blind eye to race problems. But when you're immersed in a place like this, you can't ignore it.
An unsettling way to end a blog post...I never promised it would be full of happy thoughts...
Friday, June 22, 2007
The Joburg Crew
Before I start, I wanted to give you all a little bit of SA history. June 16 is known as Youth Day, commemorating an event that happened in 1976. Due to the apartheid, children were separated by skin color for their schooling, and the black schools were greatly inferior. On that day, a bunch of black school children marched in protest through a part of Joburg, and the white police officers opened fire, killing several of them. The shooting was not in self defense. The rest of the day was one of riots and killings. The children did not initiate the violence, though in their anger over the killing of their peers they did begin to stone innocent bystanders whom they associated with the government. It was a horrible day, but it caught the attention of people and helped start the movement to work towards ending apartheid. And though it has ended, healing is still a long way away.
And a quick update on the strike – it's still going on. We went with Cheryl to the hospital on Sunday so she could visit someone, and it was eerily empty. Some staff is there, but they're all in plainclothes so they aren't attacked coming to/from work. Only the worst patients are there; they're trying to send as many home as they can since they lack manpower. In fact, the woman we went to see had had a stroke on Friday, had her head and heart operated on on Saturday, and was back at her house on Sunday. It's a miracle she was able to get the treatment, and even more of a miracle that she was doing okay. I just pray the strike will end soon, because there are many more who haven't been so fortunate.
Since I've been dropping all these names, I thought you might want to know who they are! So here are some brief bios on them...
Cheryl Allen is the pastor here at Troyeville Baptist. She is a whirlwind, and you have to listen closely because she will tell you about 10 different things at the speed of light! She has a great heart, and knows what she's doing, even if she's always 5 steps ahead of the rest of us. We typically have lunch with her family after church on Sundays, and this past week we started watching another season of the Bachelor (the season with Bob). I reassured her several times that us American girls aren't all like that :o)
Uncle Tony is the director of the TLC, and has been helping me email these blogs home since the laptop is still unusable at church. He had retired from his previous job, then came on to help get the Centre started. He and his wife, Anne, have been very kind to us, helping us get the space heaters for our rooms and even taking us to a Sunday night worship service. This Friday we're supposed to go to their place with some of the youth to watch a movie and have supper.
Janice and Josh have been named my unofficial family here. Janice has had us over for dinner twice, as well as taken us grocery shopping. Josh is her son, age 16, and often his friends Ngobi and Jono are over as well. She even took us along last Saturday to Gold Reef City theme park with Josh and Ngobi, where we rode lots of the rides and got quite dizzy. (And the cost was only R100 – about 12 or 13 USD!) They also lent us a cell phone to use while we're here. They've made us feel so comfortable and accepted here. And like a good adopted little brother, Josh has fun picking on me.
I've mentioned Nomalanga several times – she lives in the cottage with us. She's a sweet woman, but doesn't put up with any foolishness! It's been fun getting to know her and hear her story. For a long time, she lived with Oyisa's father, and he kept saying they would get married “one day,” once he had the money. She knew they should get married, and kept pushing for it. A year ago, he won a drawing for a new car which he couldn't drive. The logical response would have been to sell it and use the money to get married, but he didn't. At that time, the offer came for Nomalanga to work here and move into the cottage, so she left him and took Oyisa. In March, she took in Thabo, who was very malnourished, because of bad family dynamics. He looks very healthy now, but is still undersized for his age.
Aurelia is my co-teacher. She has twins – Prince and Princess, but everyone calls them Puti and CeeCee (that's my phonetic spelling of the words). She is sweet as well, and it's a struggle for her sometimes to teach if one of her children is crying, even through we put them in another class.
Joyce is Russell's co-teacher. She's from the Congo, and started teaching here a week before we got here. She's very talkative and funny. She's fluent in French, taught herself English, and is now working to learn Zulu. At some point I'm supposed to start discipling her with a “Fundamentals of the Faith” workbook that Cheryl is ordering.
Faith is the head cook, and always smiling and laughing. She lives across the street, though her power has been cut off. She broke her foot before we got here, but cut the cast off herself about two weeks ago because it was heavy. I'm afraid as to how poorly her foot may heal.
And Carol is now here! She was working at the Virginia Baptist Mission Board, but has come over here to spend (at least) a year working with the youth group. I think she's doing a great job already! She's full of energy, and I love to talk with her. I'll probably be helping her some with the youth, at least until I leave. And she'll hopefully be getting a car soon so we can go places!
Well, naptime is almost over, so I should go. There's lots more to do – they've asked Russell and I to help out musically on several levels, so we need to figure something out!
Cheers!
And a quick update on the strike – it's still going on. We went with Cheryl to the hospital on Sunday so she could visit someone, and it was eerily empty. Some staff is there, but they're all in plainclothes so they aren't attacked coming to/from work. Only the worst patients are there; they're trying to send as many home as they can since they lack manpower. In fact, the woman we went to see had had a stroke on Friday, had her head and heart operated on on Saturday, and was back at her house on Sunday. It's a miracle she was able to get the treatment, and even more of a miracle that she was doing okay. I just pray the strike will end soon, because there are many more who haven't been so fortunate.
Since I've been dropping all these names, I thought you might want to know who they are! So here are some brief bios on them...
Cheryl Allen is the pastor here at Troyeville Baptist. She is a whirlwind, and you have to listen closely because she will tell you about 10 different things at the speed of light! She has a great heart, and knows what she's doing, even if she's always 5 steps ahead of the rest of us. We typically have lunch with her family after church on Sundays, and this past week we started watching another season of the Bachelor (the season with Bob). I reassured her several times that us American girls aren't all like that :o)
Uncle Tony is the director of the TLC, and has been helping me email these blogs home since the laptop is still unusable at church. He had retired from his previous job, then came on to help get the Centre started. He and his wife, Anne, have been very kind to us, helping us get the space heaters for our rooms and even taking us to a Sunday night worship service. This Friday we're supposed to go to their place with some of the youth to watch a movie and have supper.
Janice and Josh have been named my unofficial family here. Janice has had us over for dinner twice, as well as taken us grocery shopping. Josh is her son, age 16, and often his friends Ngobi and Jono are over as well. She even took us along last Saturday to Gold Reef City theme park with Josh and Ngobi, where we rode lots of the rides and got quite dizzy. (And the cost was only R100 – about 12 or 13 USD!) They also lent us a cell phone to use while we're here. They've made us feel so comfortable and accepted here. And like a good adopted little brother, Josh has fun picking on me.
I've mentioned Nomalanga several times – she lives in the cottage with us. She's a sweet woman, but doesn't put up with any foolishness! It's been fun getting to know her and hear her story. For a long time, she lived with Oyisa's father, and he kept saying they would get married “one day,” once he had the money. She knew they should get married, and kept pushing for it. A year ago, he won a drawing for a new car which he couldn't drive. The logical response would have been to sell it and use the money to get married, but he didn't. At that time, the offer came for Nomalanga to work here and move into the cottage, so she left him and took Oyisa. In March, she took in Thabo, who was very malnourished, because of bad family dynamics. He looks very healthy now, but is still undersized for his age.
Aurelia is my co-teacher. She has twins – Prince and Princess, but everyone calls them Puti and CeeCee (that's my phonetic spelling of the words). She is sweet as well, and it's a struggle for her sometimes to teach if one of her children is crying, even through we put them in another class.
Joyce is Russell's co-teacher. She's from the Congo, and started teaching here a week before we got here. She's very talkative and funny. She's fluent in French, taught herself English, and is now working to learn Zulu. At some point I'm supposed to start discipling her with a “Fundamentals of the Faith” workbook that Cheryl is ordering.
Faith is the head cook, and always smiling and laughing. She lives across the street, though her power has been cut off. She broke her foot before we got here, but cut the cast off herself about two weeks ago because it was heavy. I'm afraid as to how poorly her foot may heal.
And Carol is now here! She was working at the Virginia Baptist Mission Board, but has come over here to spend (at least) a year working with the youth group. I think she's doing a great job already! She's full of energy, and I love to talk with her. I'll probably be helping her some with the youth, at least until I leave. And she'll hopefully be getting a car soon so we can go places!
Well, naptime is almost over, so I should go. There's lots more to do – they've asked Russell and I to help out musically on several levels, so we need to figure something out!
Cheers!
Friday, June 15, 2007
Two Week update
Sorry for the extreme lack of communication! Over the weekend, Russell and I had typed up huge updates on Tony's laptop for us to send out on Monday morning. On Sunday, it decided to crash after being used for the worship lyrics. Needless to say, they have decided to get rid of it and buy a new one. Which is fine, but it means our updates are gone, and the church is now without a way to get online! So, we've undertaken a little creative emailing to get this new update out to everyone. So just know that my emailing will be very very rare, and my appearance on Facebook and MySpace will be nonexistent until I'm back in the States!
On to the real update...
I'm writing this on the evening of Thursday, June 14. We've been here for a week and a half, and I feel a little more settled. After a long flight (and an enjoyable layover in London, where we ran around the city), we made it to Johannesburg on the morning of Sunday, June 3. We had just enough time to change and get to church. Running on about 6 hours of sleep from the past two days, I don't remember much of that day!
We're staying in a cottage in the church “compound.” All houses and places here are gated, even in the “nicer” parts of town. Troyeville is not one of those parts. So, we have a wall with fencing on top with barbed wire. As long as we stay smart and follow the basic rules (don't wear jewelry/carry expensive things in the street, don't go out in the street at night, keep the gate locked), we're safe. It used to be a nice area with a white majority, but sometime recently (within the past 10 or so years?), blacks started moving in, and the whites left. Apartheid may be gone, but remnants still remain. And sadly, in Joburg skin color still has a meaning. With the influx of blacks came more crime and poverty. I'm not trying to be racist at all, but it's what happened. White equals rich. Black equals poor. Making the culture switch after apartheid is difficult, and there is a large unemployment rate, especially among blacks. Much of the crime is out of desperation to simply have money for food. Several families might live in one small room, with children sleeping on the floor. It's a rough life for them.
In the States, I call myself a “poor college student.” But I now realize I have so much more than most people in this world...
Our cottage is quite nice. We have our own rooms, and we share it with Nomalanga, the head teacher at the TLC, and her two children, Oyisa (age 6) and Thabo (age 7). Thabo isn't really her son; I'll tell that story at another time. Anyway, we share the lounge, the kitchen, and the bathroom. It's a decent setup, and we have everything we need. The one shock for me was the lack of a shower. Baths only here! But I still have hot water and get clean, so I can't complain too much. There is also no heating in the cottage, or in most places around here. And yes, it's wintertime here. At night it can get cold, but when the sun is out during the day it can be quite nice. After about a week we were given small space heaters to warm up our rooms, but we use them sparingly to save on electricity. But if you wear a lot of layers and use a lot of blankets, no problem!
And we do have to be careful about blackouts. The power supply is unstable, often because people will cut the cables to sell, or steal power and overburden the system. Last night the circuit the cottage was on went out, and was out until this afternoon. I was so happy when it came back on, though, if only so I could have warm water for a bath!
There's also been a strike in South Africa. It started June 1 (the day we left the States). Basically, the teachers and hospital workers are demanding a 12 percent increase in their wages. From what I've heard, the upper rung of government holds most of the money, and there is a large gap between them and those below. So, the demand isn't unreasonable. However, negotiations haven't been going well. Many children have been out of school for almost two weeks now, and those schools that do still operate do so under great security. Unfortunately, many of the strikers have been using violence to try and convince the non-strikers to comply. It is a culture of violence. We actually closed yesterday, as more government workers were planning to strike, and we didn't want to become a potential target or put any of the children in danger. No worries – we opened up today just fine, and there were no problems. But the entire situation needs a lot of prayer.
On to the TLC itself: The Touch Life Centre has been in existence for about a year and operates Monday through Friday, 7:30 to 16:30. Approximately 60 children are enrolled, and 40 more are on the waiting list. They are about 2-5 years of age (out of their nappies...er, diapers). It is extremely low cost: 50 rand a month. One US dollar equals about 7 rand, so essentially they are paying 7 dollars a month. The actual cost of caring for the children is higher, so they rely on donations and such. The children are divided into three classes: Puppies, Elephants, and Giraffes (youngest to oldest, respectively). The first day, Russell and I were given the Elephant class, because their teacher, Malt, has had to leave town for a few weeks to care for her brother's affairs after his murder. (I'm sorry, I know that was probably a jolting statement, but I felt I should include it). They quickly took advantage of us, so now we co-teach with others. I help Aurelia in the Puppy class, and Russell helps Joyce in the Elephants.
It's taken a while for me to get used to the ways of these children, and for them to get used to me. There is no discipline at home, so they don't know how to respond. At first, they would infuriate me by deliberately doing the opposite of whatever I said while looking directly at me and smiling. They knew they were disobeying me! But they also weren't used to me. My English is quite different (though I've found myself using some South African pronunciations), and I don't speak Zulu (what most of them speak, though we encourage English here). And, my skin is a different color, a fact I often forget. Again, skin color holds much more meaning here. But they're starting to listen more, and I've been able to relax a little more. They're so affectionate and love to have any contact with you. When they come running at you for a hug or a high five, it's hard to stay mad! And they need a lot of love; they've been exposed to so many horrible things already, more than I've seen, and I'm four times their ages.
Our basic schedule: breakfast, toilet, morning prayer/singing, teaching, outside play if it's nice, toilet, morning snack, sleeping time, toilet, lunch, face wash, story time, play time, toilet, afternoon snack, group singing, playing until pick-up. Due to a lack of training and resources, there's not a lot of structured education that happens. A woman from the States is supposed to be coming at the end of the month to help implement something. So basically, I take a lot of kids to the toilet, keep them from hurting each other or myself, and give them food. I know it must sound like a lot of food, but for many of these kids it's probably all the food they'll get for the day. And yes, we eat lunch with them (where we've been introduced to pap, which is basically a sticky and tasteless starch made from cornstarch and mixed with anything).
Today we also had the opportunity to spend a few hours at Door of Hope, the baby house Cheryl helped establish. I got to hold a bunch of precious babies, and it made me happy :o) But I also found out that Americans can't adopt from there or anywhere in SA due to our government's refusal to sign some adoption treaty that SA is a part of.
As we have no car, we've been reliant upon the kindness of church people to take us places. We've had a few people have us over for meals, which is a nice break from cooking! (Yes, we cook for ourselves, and we are masters at grilled cheese and pasta. And yes, we eat fruit as well.) Janice had us over for a meal and game night with her son and his two school friends, and Tony and Anne took us to an evening worship service at an “emergent” church and fed us afterwards (and lent us some more reading material). And we have a standing after-church lunch invitation at Cheryl's. I realize those names probably mean nothing to you right now, but in a later update I'll try to let you know a little more about them. Nomalanga also occasionally includes us in her meals, which is nice as well. And we're in the process of making a few plans to see things – a hike, maybe a rhino park, etc.
There's so much more I can say, but I'm sure you've probably gone cross-eyed by now from reading all this. But if you're dying to read more, take a look at Russell's blog!
Cheers!
On to the real update...
I'm writing this on the evening of Thursday, June 14. We've been here for a week and a half, and I feel a little more settled. After a long flight (and an enjoyable layover in London, where we ran around the city), we made it to Johannesburg on the morning of Sunday, June 3. We had just enough time to change and get to church. Running on about 6 hours of sleep from the past two days, I don't remember much of that day!
We're staying in a cottage in the church “compound.” All houses and places here are gated, even in the “nicer” parts of town. Troyeville is not one of those parts. So, we have a wall with fencing on top with barbed wire. As long as we stay smart and follow the basic rules (don't wear jewelry/carry expensive things in the street, don't go out in the street at night, keep the gate locked), we're safe. It used to be a nice area with a white majority, but sometime recently (within the past 10 or so years?), blacks started moving in, and the whites left. Apartheid may be gone, but remnants still remain. And sadly, in Joburg skin color still has a meaning. With the influx of blacks came more crime and poverty. I'm not trying to be racist at all, but it's what happened. White equals rich. Black equals poor. Making the culture switch after apartheid is difficult, and there is a large unemployment rate, especially among blacks. Much of the crime is out of desperation to simply have money for food. Several families might live in one small room, with children sleeping on the floor. It's a rough life for them.
In the States, I call myself a “poor college student.” But I now realize I have so much more than most people in this world...
Our cottage is quite nice. We have our own rooms, and we share it with Nomalanga, the head teacher at the TLC, and her two children, Oyisa (age 6) and Thabo (age 7). Thabo isn't really her son; I'll tell that story at another time. Anyway, we share the lounge, the kitchen, and the bathroom. It's a decent setup, and we have everything we need. The one shock for me was the lack of a shower. Baths only here! But I still have hot water and get clean, so I can't complain too much. There is also no heating in the cottage, or in most places around here. And yes, it's wintertime here. At night it can get cold, but when the sun is out during the day it can be quite nice. After about a week we were given small space heaters to warm up our rooms, but we use them sparingly to save on electricity. But if you wear a lot of layers and use a lot of blankets, no problem!
And we do have to be careful about blackouts. The power supply is unstable, often because people will cut the cables to sell, or steal power and overburden the system. Last night the circuit the cottage was on went out, and was out until this afternoon. I was so happy when it came back on, though, if only so I could have warm water for a bath!
There's also been a strike in South Africa. It started June 1 (the day we left the States). Basically, the teachers and hospital workers are demanding a 12 percent increase in their wages. From what I've heard, the upper rung of government holds most of the money, and there is a large gap between them and those below. So, the demand isn't unreasonable. However, negotiations haven't been going well. Many children have been out of school for almost two weeks now, and those schools that do still operate do so under great security. Unfortunately, many of the strikers have been using violence to try and convince the non-strikers to comply. It is a culture of violence. We actually closed yesterday, as more government workers were planning to strike, and we didn't want to become a potential target or put any of the children in danger. No worries – we opened up today just fine, and there were no problems. But the entire situation needs a lot of prayer.
On to the TLC itself: The Touch Life Centre has been in existence for about a year and operates Monday through Friday, 7:30 to 16:30. Approximately 60 children are enrolled, and 40 more are on the waiting list. They are about 2-5 years of age (out of their nappies...er, diapers). It is extremely low cost: 50 rand a month. One US dollar equals about 7 rand, so essentially they are paying 7 dollars a month. The actual cost of caring for the children is higher, so they rely on donations and such. The children are divided into three classes: Puppies, Elephants, and Giraffes (youngest to oldest, respectively). The first day, Russell and I were given the Elephant class, because their teacher, Malt, has had to leave town for a few weeks to care for her brother's affairs after his murder. (I'm sorry, I know that was probably a jolting statement, but I felt I should include it). They quickly took advantage of us, so now we co-teach with others. I help Aurelia in the Puppy class, and Russell helps Joyce in the Elephants.
It's taken a while for me to get used to the ways of these children, and for them to get used to me. There is no discipline at home, so they don't know how to respond. At first, they would infuriate me by deliberately doing the opposite of whatever I said while looking directly at me and smiling. They knew they were disobeying me! But they also weren't used to me. My English is quite different (though I've found myself using some South African pronunciations), and I don't speak Zulu (what most of them speak, though we encourage English here). And, my skin is a different color, a fact I often forget. Again, skin color holds much more meaning here. But they're starting to listen more, and I've been able to relax a little more. They're so affectionate and love to have any contact with you. When they come running at you for a hug or a high five, it's hard to stay mad! And they need a lot of love; they've been exposed to so many horrible things already, more than I've seen, and I'm four times their ages.
Our basic schedule: breakfast, toilet, morning prayer/singing, teaching, outside play if it's nice, toilet, morning snack, sleeping time, toilet, lunch, face wash, story time, play time, toilet, afternoon snack, group singing, playing until pick-up. Due to a lack of training and resources, there's not a lot of structured education that happens. A woman from the States is supposed to be coming at the end of the month to help implement something. So basically, I take a lot of kids to the toilet, keep them from hurting each other or myself, and give them food. I know it must sound like a lot of food, but for many of these kids it's probably all the food they'll get for the day. And yes, we eat lunch with them (where we've been introduced to pap, which is basically a sticky and tasteless starch made from cornstarch and mixed with anything).
Today we also had the opportunity to spend a few hours at Door of Hope, the baby house Cheryl helped establish. I got to hold a bunch of precious babies, and it made me happy :o) But I also found out that Americans can't adopt from there or anywhere in SA due to our government's refusal to sign some adoption treaty that SA is a part of.
As we have no car, we've been reliant upon the kindness of church people to take us places. We've had a few people have us over for meals, which is a nice break from cooking! (Yes, we cook for ourselves, and we are masters at grilled cheese and pasta. And yes, we eat fruit as well.) Janice had us over for a meal and game night with her son and his two school friends, and Tony and Anne took us to an evening worship service at an “emergent” church and fed us afterwards (and lent us some more reading material). And we have a standing after-church lunch invitation at Cheryl's. I realize those names probably mean nothing to you right now, but in a later update I'll try to let you know a little more about them. Nomalanga also occasionally includes us in her meals, which is nice as well. And we're in the process of making a few plans to see things – a hike, maybe a rhino park, etc.
There's so much more I can say, but I'm sure you've probably gone cross-eyed by now from reading all this. But if you're dying to read more, take a look at Russell's blog!
Cheers!
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